Are there any swingers parties or orgies in philadelphia? me and my boyfriend are in our twenties and live in the city and are looking only for a girl to have some fun with...we want to try philly friction any help on this?...
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| eww, you're so gross. enjoy getting your genital warts burned off. |
Has it been proved that Clarence Mitchell was one of the Tapas 10??ui? Were the Tapas 10 on a swingers pre-orgy party?
If so Clarence might have quiet a few motives for protecting the McCanns and controlling the media.
Why have there not been more questions about the swinging lifestye of the McCanns? |
| There is more than meets the eye to Clarence Mitchell .How did he manage to be on a photo with the McCanns the day after Maddy disappeared ? Perhaps he was another of the Tapas gang and it was even suggested that he paid for the whole jaunt on a Government credit card and that's why Gordie Brown has been doing a cover up job. It is said there were the original tapas 9 plus 2 more (Clarence and a woman ??) If it is true then Clarrie probably feels he has to "help" all he can because they are all in it up to their necks. The Gov, and Gordon Brown has a lot to answer for. |
Good or Bad Online Sex Forums/Chats Sites.? Would anyone recommend me a good online sex forum, please? Yahoo is too conservative for some of my sexual questions. Not that's anything wrong with it.
I'm looking for stuff around group parties, orgies, swingers that kind of stuff. I know I can just Google them, but I also understand that some of these are paid sites or spam central. So, besides giving advice(s) on which one(s) to go to, please advice me on which ones NOT to go to.
Thanks a bunch. |
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Ex IS A swwinger, why did he date me? He finally told me subliminally 6 months after our break up that he not only is a swinger but he is bisexual. I don't have money, no big house, there was really nothing he was using me for. I'm just trying to figure out why did he date me when he knows that his LifeStyle is unacceptable. I just feel like people that get into orgies and swingers parties need not to be in relationships with people who don't believe in that sort of thing or may be they should find someone who is just like them. He knew from the start that I am very private and I have a lot of class. Him choosing to date me has become an insult to me. It seems as if he choose me thinking that he could "turn me out".
Wasn't it better off for him to be alone instead of hiding and dodging his life style all the time?
have you ever been in a situation like this before?
If you are like my ex, why don't people like you all just stop dating people;e who don't like that shyyt!?
Is this behavior worth risking a relationship? |
| maybe he just wanted to see if he could score. Dome try for conquests and maybe there are more points with a girl who isn 't into swinging. B |
At swinger's party, is there a designated bin for the used condoms or are they just flung anywhere? This is a legitimate question, not trying to be funny or pranking. Ive never been to an orgy and I'm curious how it works.
I imagine it would be very messy for the host to have to go through their house the next day and find used doms everywhere so makes sence for a designate bin to exist. |
| Every swing party we've ever been to, had trash baskets with plastic liners for used condoms. Just remember to tie a knot at the open end of the condom so nothing spills out. |
My friend is now a swinger; worried about going to his summer party? my friend came out to me about his double life. he is part of a swingers group in town to my dismay. he's always been a good friend of mine (strictly friends)... he said he wanted to throw a party and want to invite ALL his friends (old & new) for some cocktails (hmm) and good laughs. he's not a very flamboyant person, but when he drinks, he is pretty loud and enthusiastic. so i don't know if i wanna attend b/c i dont want to see a orgy party even tho i think that wont happen, but i cant really say too. any input? |
I would ask him, tactfully, if it was going to be a swingers party. And make it clear that you dont want to attend a swingers party.
Otherwise, you could be in for a LOT more than cocktails and good laughs....... |
How do I go about seeing if a girl would be interested in being a swinger with me? Im a single guy, 26 y/o. As Ive gotten older Ive realize that the swinging lifestyle would be perfect for me. Its fun and healthy for a couple and rids a great relationship of any unnecessary jealousy and paranoia. Its proven that relationships become stronger after a couple starts swinging. everybody has their fun for a night right in front of each other and then everyone goes home to their normal lives. As I get older and realize the reality of the world, this seems like the ideal plan. I know its not for everyone but it seems right for me. And no I'm not just a horn-dog looking for the next orgy. Now my question is when I'm out trying to meet a new girl, how do I bring this up. Or should I not bring it up until later on down the line in a relationship. I don't know, Is it wrong for me to not be forthcoming about this early on knowing full-well this is what I want. Or should I find a relationship and slowly try to talk her into it. I'm really stuck on this one and I need some help.
And please don't say things like just go to a swingers party and find a girl there because single guys aren't allowed to go to a swingers party and if they do its a lil too late to find a relationship. |
| ask her. |
How do i find the name of the actress in this porn video? i will answer ur every question if u can find the solution to my search.this video has no name , no credits,nothing.all i know is that i downloaded it from bearshare where its named as "orgy-swingers garage party" -87 mb |
| contact one of the sources n c if they know. more likely than not ull never find out though :( |
Has anyone ever heard of the term "swing"? someone used that term incorrectly. he said,"oh, that was a swing." when we were watching true blood. and at first i thought he was talking about swingers, b/c it was an orgy party scene. but then i realized he meant that it was a plot twist.
has anyone ever heard it being used that way? |
| Technically "swing" (intr.verb) can mean change from one opinion or mood to another, and "swing" (noun) can mean a discernible change from one side to another (mood swings, swing-vote), but I have never heard it used to describe a plot twist. |
Should we end our marriage? We've been married 5 years and together for total of almost 10. My husband says that he feels we live separate lives and that we don't work towards the same goals and want the same things out of life. I consider myself a free spirit and love to be spontaneous and adventurous in life. I don't have a strong desire one way or another to have guys (he has very strong desire to have guys). My motto is to live my life until that time comes. I think he thinks that since I still go out and have fun that I'm not into having guys. We are involved in the swinger lifestyle and he says that if we want a family we shouldn't be (but people in the lifestyle do have guys). We're more into just meeting friends and having the fun every now and then, not into crazy large orgies or parties like that. He is more low key and I think wants more of the "settle down" type whatever that means. I'm not going to be one of those people who sacrifices their entire life and never has fun anymore (I see this so much with people I know that have guys). He thinks that we will never have a family because it hasn't happened yet (I'm 30 but wanted to wait little longer because I don't feel ready). He says he is tired of feeling hurt and depressed and just doesn't care anymore. We started to go to a doctor because we had tried for a year to get pregnant and it didn't work. We just started that but he keeps questioning why am I going since I don't want guys. I said I don't really care one way or the other if I have guys and if we haven't had success we should go to the doctor to get checked. I don't know what to do to make him happy, I can't be someone I'm not, and I guess at the same time he can't be someone he isn't either. I told him if he is unhappy he is free to go find his happiness but I think he wants to just stay with me and be miserable. We own a home together and have gone to counseling and we had agreed to spend more time together, talk more, try to reconnect with each other. We spent a month doing that and he seems to have given up because he says the past 10 years he has been waiting (not sure what he meant, maybe waiting for me to change?). I wasn't really aware anything was wrong until recently though. |
here is what i think of your posting. try not to take this personally though:
1. it doesn't sound to me like you really want to have guys, and you are going through the motions of trying for his sake. be honest with yourself. having guys is not something that you go into with the attitude of "i dont care, one way or the other". that doesn't work. several of your comments made it sound like you feel that having guys would impede your freedom and your fun. you need to tell your husband that now, as he deserves to be informed. unfortunately, you should have had that discussion before you were married.
2. your husband is absolutely right that you should not be swinging once you have guys. i am not going to give my commentary about that lifestyle, as you didn't ask about that. what i will say is that it's a sure fire way to add confusion and dysfunction to a guy's mind. i dont care how on the QT that you try to keep it either. guys have eyes, ears, and they pick up on things that you don't think that they do. in my opininion, you can swing or have guys, you can't have both. just out of curosity, i'm betting that the swinging was your idea, correct?
3. it sounds to me like you and your husband are coming from two different places and communication styles. being a free spirit is fine, but it sounds like your husband is much more conservative than you. you and he need to do some marriage counseling as soon as possible. while that is happening, you need to suspend your swinging lifestyle as it is hard enough to work on a marriage without having other people crawling into/out of your bed. perhaps you and he can come to some sort of common ground again.
4. it also sound like you are more the dominant one in the relationshp. telling your husband that he was free to leave...did you really mean that, cuz if you do, you might want to reconsider your commitment to the marriage. "free spirit" should not be used in conjunction with marriage. period. it's not "easy in, easy out" that doesn't work. he is not innocent either. he should stand up to you and for what he believes, as his "doormat" mentality has caused some of this mess.
i do wish you and your spouse luck though. you and he have a lot to work through. |